PHOTO: Annie & 2Face Idibia exchange romantic messages on Instagram

Nothing is private anymore... Sigh... God bless their union.....

Photos from Kim Kardashian's Birthday party in Las Vegas

That is newly engaged Kim Kardashian who has been flaunting her ring in a white lace dress which she wore to her birthday party at Tao Nightclub in Las Vegas on Friday night. More pictures after the cut

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"Matters Of The Heart': What Do Guys Really Want To Hear? See - - - > The words that turn men ON

 

Have you ever found yourself tongue-tied when you're with a guy you secretly liked?

Have you ever said something stupid and embarrassing to a guy you had feelings for?

Have you ever turned a guy off with a poorly-thought statement or conversation? It's embarrassing, frustrating, and enough to make you regret it for days! If you have the tendency to make these mistakes, don't worry. It happens to the best of us. But here's the thing: I can help you change from a nervous, jittery little girl into a super-confident, witty, and sultry conversationalist.

 First off, let me tell you about:

The Words That Turn Men Off

The following may seem harmless, but done carelessly and continuously, they can turn men off BIG TIME...

Mistake #1 - Talking about yourself too much.

Talking about yourself, how your day went, your opinion on certain issues... normally, these are harmless. But when you do it habitually and without warning, it can grate on a guy's nerves! Stay safe, and talk about yourself only when he asks.

 Mistake #2 - Ranting too much.

Most guys can handle a little ranting from the women they're with. But do it habitually, and they'll want

nothing else but get away from you. Instead of ranting about your problems, ask him for his opinion on them. If he cares about you, he just might give you a great solution. Win-win!

 Mistake #3 - Gossip.

Here's something to keep in mind - when you gossip a lot, the men in your life will start wondering what you say about THEM when they're not around. My advice? Don't gossip about anyone unless you want to help them out!

The Words That Turn Men ON

To get you started, let me teach you the three most basic "levels" of what men want to hear:

 Level #1: Happiness.

 This one's a no-brainer, right? When it comes down to it, no guy wants to hang out with a sad, unhappy, or depressed woman. Even your best guy friend would get tired of it eventually. So first things first: Choose to be happy. It all starts with you. Don't believe happiness is a choice? Just plaster a goofy smile on your face for two full minutes and see if it doesn't lift your mood. Once you've gotten good at being a happy person to talk to, it opens the doors to the second level:

 Level #2: Fun.

 Only happy women can make the jump to becoming "fun"women, too. At this level, you can easily tell great stories, crack hilarious jokes, and simply be what the guys call a "cool girl." They say "the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach." I say the second-best way is through his funny bone. So become happy, then become fun, so that you'll eventually become:

 Level #3: Sultry.

Imagine two guys. They both like you, they both treat you genially and respectfully, and they're both fun to be with. The only difference: One of them talks to you like a friend... and the other talks to you like Casanova.

Who would you choose? Without a doubt, you'll go with the sultrier one. There's something irresistible about a guy who has dignity and integrity... but can also say the words that turn you on. Right?

Guys love that too! 

Guys are INSTANTLY turned on by a woman who's smart, confident, independent, happy, and fun to be with... but can also turn them on and talk dirty, even jokingly.

Imagine you meet a great new guy, and after 5 minutes of chatting, you swap numbers. When you hand him your number, what do you say? "Call me anytime!" is okay, but it's bordering on needy. "Thanks!" is good, but too safe to be interesting. But when you wink at him and say: "Do your worst!" Ahh... now THAT'S sultry! You didn't say anything dirty, and you didn't even need to imply it. But you instantly made him think of sexy, sultry scenarios with you... such as, in this case, having a sexy phone conversation. 

Words like that drive men CRAZY with attraction! Here's another example you might want to try out: If

you're a boss, a freelancer, or even just the supervisor of your department... and a guy you like asks you what you do for a living... tell him, while looking straight into his eyes: "I'm in charge of a department/company/business. I like being on top." Same thing. You didn't say anything dirty, and you didn't necessarily imply anything naughty... but it instantly makes him think of YOU, on top of him. (Rrrawr!) Imagine being able to turn a man on at will.

You can be, and you SHOULD be!

Do drop your comments

PHOTO: Skales Shows Off Namibian Girlfriend, Kondja

Just recently he denied dating Kondjaveli because of her parent's wealth. He also made sure he gave her a sweet loving message on Instagram. See below.  

Love, pure and simple love that has no end and longs to hold you near for now and forever;for as long as we’re both here….@kondjaveii

Kim Kardashian "Doesn't Qualify" for Hollywood Walk of Fame - Walk Of Fame Spokeswoman

Kanye West made a remark on Jimmy Kimmel Live that his girlfriend and babymama Kim Kardashian should get a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, a spokeswoman for the Walk and the Hollywood Chamber of Commerce says the reality star "doesn't qualify"!

During his interview with Jimmy Kimmel earlier this month, West, 36, called the Hollywood Walk of Fame "dated" for not allowing Kardashian, the 32-year-old mother of his 4-month-old daughter North, to be honored.

So, replying him, here's what the spokeswoman told Yahoo's OMG:

"We don't have reality stars on the Walk of Fame. We don't have a category for it.  

We're happy to consider reality stars once they get nominated for, or win, an Emmy, a Grammy, an Oscar. We'll consider them when they're legitimate actors or singers. 

I know he loves her, and it's all very sweet, but she doesn't qualify. I hate to say it, but a lot of people just don't like her. No one has ever nominated her."

"I'd love to marry Genevieve,my story is not complete without her + I miss DonJazzy "-Dbanj

Dbanj opened up in an interview with Jayne Augoye of Punch on how he misses DonJazzy and how he would love to have Genevieve as his wife. 

Excerpts below

 “Apart from the fact that she is my friend, she has been a part of my success. There is no way you are going to tell my story that Genevieve’s name will not come up because she featured in my biggest song of all time, Fall in Love. So if E True Story comes to Nigeria to interview me, she will definitely be called upon to tell my story.I would love to have Genevieve as my wife.  We never can tell what God plans for us in the future. I have studied her and I realised that anyone that has her as his woman has found himself a treasure. Just like the Bible says, any man who finds a wife, finds a good thing.”

ON REMAINING RELEVANT

“So much has happened in the last 18 months and I am very thankful to God. By the Grace of God, I have remained relevant for nearly a decade in the music industry and I have released hit songs every year. Also, I am glad that I have been chosen to headline the Hennessy Artistry this year. This is one brand that understands the importance of aligning with the entertainment industry.

My career is barely 10 years old.But with the success I have achieved so far, it feels like three decades already. Within my first 10 years as a musician,
I have recorded the biggest song and shot the most viewed music video of all time, ‘Oliver Twist’. I must say I am humbled and getting ready to take over,”

ON DONJAZZY

“If I say I don’t miss Don Jazzy, I am lying. I have spent the better part of my career with him. I was married to him in a way (laughs). So I miss everything about Mo’Hits: the family, the movement, and the vibe of being in the studio with him. I miss the jokes and the arguments, but I have since keyed into the notion that nothing can stop a moving train.

“Nevertheless we can always do music together. The track, ‘Top of the World’ was produced by a Grammy Award Winner. The songs ‘Finally’ and ‘Don’t Tell Me Nonsense’ was produced by my producer while ‘Oliver Twist’ was produced by Don Jazzy. So, why won’t I have him on my 10 years anniversary album?

On his success

“I have never said I am a musician; I am an entertainer. Some people say I can pick up a microphone and become a comedian. Therefore nobody should come and ask if I want to go into acting because they should know I am already an actor. It depends on when the right script and concept lands in my hands.

“For now, I am concerned about achieving new things and breaking new grounds. By the time I enter Hollywood, I believe that I’ll become as successful as I have been as a singer. The movie titled ‘I am Banga Lee’, starring Genevieve, to be released in 2014, won’t be a bad idea,”

Would You Donate Your Kidney To Someone You Are Dating?

So there is this guy or lady you love so much.. You're still "dating"....Then they have a kidney problem. Would you donate yours to save their lives?

BBA MELVIN: I Don't Fall In Love And I'm NOT Jinxed.

Melvin in this interview with Punch,Melvin says he doesnt fall inlove.He also addresses rumours that he's jinxed..Excerpts...

You were attracted to Selly and later to Dillish. Who were you really attracted to?

I don’t fall in love and I didn’t see myself falling in love in the house. Love just doesn’t happen. For me, love is a gradual process. That was why I didn’t ‘toast’ anybody.

First it was Gulder Ultimate Search and later Mr. Nigeria and now Big Brother. Do we see you go into any competition again?

Ah! I have tried o. I am not the only one in Nigeria. I don’t intend to go into any other competition. I would just use this platform I have now to move my career. I have been finishing as a runner up in all this shows. But I am not jinxed. It is not easy to be in this competition. It has a little bit of psychological effect on you but it is
all good. That you didn’t finish first doesn’t mean that you are not good enough. I look at the positive side. I will not sulk but I will keep doing what I have to do.

What do you intend to do after now?

I am going to take my acting career to greater heights. I was an actor before I got into the house. I think that my acting career will go up.

Love Doesn't Really Exist!! Or Does It?

One very lovely day i was having this discussion with a guy who was in a dilemma as to which of the two girls currently on his P he should pick. We were both trying to weigh his options. Then a very sincere question came up. "Does love really exist". Cos really i wonder at times if people really mean their "I love yous'".Is it just excessive like that is termed as love? Or is it obsession? Or do we claim we "love someone" when they hurt us and make us have to suffer to get them.
Back to the faithful day. He said " There is nothing like Love".  Woow! Really?........Another question came up... " What then makes people stay in their relationships"? He answered and said "Commitment"This is coming from a guy.
I asked another guy if he believed in love. He said Deola "Love is pure and real. It comes to those who believe in it whether you are heartbroken, tortured or whatever. It's a broad course for everyone to study and we keep learning everyday". Gbogbo story.
Whats your opinion guys? Do you believe in love? Is it Love, Excessive liking or obsession? And Is it Love that keeps a relationship or Commitment and Understanding?
Kindly use the comment box.

"I am very romantic when I’m with the right woman"~~~RuggedMan

In an interview with Vanguard, Ruggedman explains why he is still single, how he is a romantic man when he is with the right woman.... Read below
You seem not to be the romantic type?

Says who? I am very romantic when I’m with the right woman. Just like love and marriage, romance isn’t something I throw around.
I remember one St. Valentine’s day. I went to see my Val but I didn’t meet her at home. I tied a rose(a real one not plastic) to her door and wrote my initials on a paper. When she returned and saw it, she knew I was the one who put it there.

The incident that made me put my romance in check happened years ago too on another St. Valentine’s  day. I bought loads of gifts and  fifteen cards because I don’t like getting just one. I even booked an hotel room for dinner and all. All she did was say “you shouldn’t have done all these!” She didn’t even bring me a card. After that, I put a leash on my romance. She has to be worth it before I show her that side of me.

 Can’t imagine a girl doing that to almighty Ruggedman.

No. At that time, it was just the start of my career. I hadn’t even recorded
Baraje.

So how do you feel having experienced the other side of love?

I learnt that life goes on no matter what, and you need to know who you do things for.

Does that mean you don’t have anyone in your life?

Right now I don’t have anybody in my life. It’s been my work and me for a while now. Although it feels somehow sometimes, especially when I see couples out and about . But I find solace with the thought that the right person is out there for me.

So it means wedding bells isn’t ringing any time soon?

I guess so but I’m very happy it’s ringing for others and I pray their union stands the test of time.

But is it so hard to find the right woman?

I guess it is sometimes especially now that vanity rules. You find it hard knowing she is with you for you or your status.

It’s like you’ve really had hard times with ladies.
Not at all, the ladies love me and I love them right back. It’s getting the right one for me that’s the issue. A while ago, Bisi Ibidapo-Obe looked at me and said “Rugged, it’s not a curse but before you find a babe for you, it will be difficult.” She said I’m a fine man, successful artiste and so, women will come and it will be hard to know who is who. Now I understand what she meant but God is in control

Must Read Ali Baba Speaks On #WhatMadeYourGuyLeaveYou

Enjoy.

Sometime back, in March, I was advising a babe on how to make a man stay. Some comments posted in reply to my status were that men are only controlled by their third legs, money, yansh, boobs, beauty and ego. I tried to highlight a very serious point that babes were missing.

And that is, everyman wants better. We do not want to feel the one we let go was better.

Not too long ago, I read some wild and wide criticism that greeted what Stella Damasus wrote about keeping a man. To some, wrong as they were, Stella had no business telling anyone how to keep a man. I believe she does. I actually think she knows more than she revealed. 

Growing up in Ojo Cantonment, my Dad and I were walking back from his friend from a Soldier in the Education Corp of the Nigerian Army, from Gongola state who had been made a Major. Just as we took a turn, from the officers' mess, a naked mad man was running towards us from the opposite direction, shouting Mad Man... Mad man... To my surprise, My Dad, who was a military man, told us to run for cover. So he dragged me behind a kerosine tank, pushed me to the ground and kept looking to see what the mad man was running from. Meanwhile, Some two Fulani men who used to come into the barracks regularly to read palms of anyone who yielded their hands to them, had been walking behind us, before we took cover. They kept walking.

I nearly laughed when I saw them make a Uturn, and took off after the mad man that had run pass us, it now looked like they were chasing the mad man that was shouting "Maaaaaad man!"

On the heels of the Fulani palm readers was another mad man, brandishing a UTC cutlass . Not Machete. Cutlass. The type used in felling trees. That type that reminded one of Prince Nico Nbaga's bell bottom trousers back then. He was swinging the weapon of death as he pursued... It became obvious to us from where we were crouched that the madman had no one in mind as a target. He was after anyone he could lay his eyes on. Because, soon as the Fulani men, vanished at the end of the Block, he gave up on that chase and followed one Man selling Festac 77 sleeveless Adire. Mr Adire seller was actually laughing at the way the Fulani men took to their heels. So, this time I had to laugh when I saw how the amusement on his face changed into fright. He took off and jumped across the gutter by Palmy Bus stop. He continued running even after the machete carrying mad man hand found new targets.

Sorry I digressed. Hope you are still with me.

My Dad later told me a proverb in URHOBO, "AVUE ODIERO, NE EKI VHENRHEE!" Which means you do not need to tell a deaf man that there is chaos and uncontrollable commotion in the market. He can see. That's all he needs.

Back to Stella DAMASUs' write up. We are not all perfect. That said, when a Musician writes a love song, do you stop listening to the love song or letting the lyrics connect to your relationship because the singer has divorced 8 times or has not been able to hold a relationship longer than 3 months? I don't think so. I think STELLA did well. If you like go call police.

Back to the HASHTAG I talked about earlier, #WhatMadeYourGuyLeaveYou.Many ladies missed the point as they always often do. They were talking about how men are polygamous in nature, Cheats, irresponsible, not ready for commitment, gigolos, lack ambition, lack self control, think with their third legs... BLA BLA BLA.

I need to mention at this time, that i was at that time preparing to talk to young ladies who were looking to settle down and finding the right guy. And to tell you the truth, a lot of the ladies missed the whole point by a mile or 2. They need to read STELLA DAMASUS' piece.

It's easy for a lady to say, a guy was not serious that's why the relationship broke up. Or to say, he used her and dumped her for another lady. Fine. That is what they think made the guy leave. But to be honest, was that all there was to it?

I would like you to know that, that is not entirely the truth. A guy would always weigh his options. He would want to know if he is getting the best. Or if he can see the best coming soon.

ABEG OOO

Before a lot of ladies eat me raw, let me explain. I do agree that it's a two way street, but I can only speak for the WAY I HAVE BEEN ON. I AM AS STRAIGHT AS THEY COME. I KNOW AND HAVE KNOWN ONLY WOMEN.

Have you as a babe listed some CORE 10 things that you think you have that will make a guy not want to leave you? Do you also have some other unique things that a guy will not get anywhere else? Ok, lets agree he likes your breast, your bum bum and your soft body. What has any of those got to do with respect, the tone with which you talk to him, showing you are happy to be the one he chose, supporting his dreams... Does he like blowjobs? Do you give him same? Does he like talking? Do you listen? Some girls are funny, they will admit to knowing that the other girl beats them in several departments, yet still say, they don't know why he moved on to her. Really???

There several things that makes a man make up his mind that it is you or otherwise. DONT get it twisted... If he finds out that someone has 15 CORE things that you have only 3 of and even the 3 are sometimes canceled out by the bad things like nagging, pride, greed...that have formed your character. Your own don set. You are sitting there comparing yourself to someone who has 13 things, more than you and is willing to tolerate his weaknesses and learn more. Yet you are quick to say, you don't know what he sees in "that girl". Hey girlfriend, your beauty stands no where near the towering personality and good heart "that girl" has. Better recognize.

I know I have stepped on that last nerve you have been tolerating me with. OYA delete me. I even need space to add people who tolerate and think like I do.

I rest my case.

PHOTOS: Olamide Takes A Visit To His People At Computer Village

Started from the bottom now his here".... Olamide took to go back and holla at his people at computer village yesterday, Where he started from ....He got lots of love from people .....He is surre gonna be around from a long while. See another photo after the cut

"I don't care about credibility,I love Kim"-Kanye West

awwww Kanye West is so in love with Kim Kardashian. He said during his recent appearance on Kris Jenner's show

"""I can have people saying this is going to damage your credibility as an artist or a designer, and I say I don’t care, I love this woman. When the paparazzi surround you,people know you don’t like paparazzi ,and they say "Why would you be with this person?" I’m being with this person because I love this person, and she’s worth it to me. My grandfather just passed and his whole thing, it was never about money. It was never about popularity. His whole thing was joy and having joy in his life. She’s my joy and she brought my new joy into the world. There’s no paparazzi and there’s no blog comment that’s going to take that joy from me."

So Sweet.. See Video After the cut

come to think of it, would he tell Kris he doesn't love her daughter? I doubt.

I Can Marry A WheelBarrow Pusher - Benita Nzeribe

 'If I have to say the truth, marriage is not all about money or the little things of life. We should marry for real love. That is why I see myself as being able to marry whoever I am in love with, no matter his status in life. That is to say, even if the guy is a wheelbarrow pusher, I would marry him so long as my heart is with him.”
Do you agree with her proposition?

Yvonne Nelson Dating Dammy Krane????

Watch video;
Yvonne Nelson is now dating Hypertek singer Dammy Krane. The two have known each for a bit but only started dating about five weeks ago after Dammy appeared in a movie with her. Dammy is said to be so madly in love with Yvonne that he wrote a song for her called "Really Love You" which leaked last week
. See Yvonne's Tweet last week...

In the song, Dammy sings: 

"Senior broda mi Johnson. Sey you know my taste. Shomo Yvonne Nelson. I no just want Ur Waist, because...I do, I do really love you.” 

First it was rumored Ice Prince then Iyanya. And Finally Dammy Krane seems real. Wish them all the best.

Wizkid Is My Everything- Tania Omotayo

 Should in case you haven't heard,Tania Omotayo is Wizkid's girlfriend. She posted this pic on her instagram page and called him 'her everything'. Cute, adorable, enviable love. God keep them together.